Jakes friend Steve came in town this week and Jake took off work while he has been here. With a friend in town you would think they would get out of the house and do something fun…mine finding, quail hunting, adventure seeking( some of the things Jake mentioned before he came). But since he has been here they have sat at home all day and played risk on the computer while I have been slaving at our job(aka on the internet,watching movies, and crocheting scarves). I came home last night and the first thing Jake said to me is,”Are you sure you don’t want me to be a stay at home dad? I could really get use to this.” I laughed and said no way.
Archives for September 2008
Fall is here
Fall is here. This is my favorite season of the year. The weather on the South Plains has been typically mild (Sunny, mid 50’s in before sunup and low 80’s before sundown.)
The days are getting shorter as the sun goes down earlier and earlier everyday. The leaves are just starting to yellow and lawns are nearing their final days of green. Canada geese have not yet filled the pond across the street, but the grackles have arrived and are filling the trees in the park.
Funnel cakes, corndogs, and fresh squeezed lemonade. Bright lights, fast rides and blue ribbon winning livestock. The South Plains Fair is packing up just about ready to leave town.
Students have returned and Tech is back in full swing. The Red Raiders are 3 and 0 and after last night are ranked 8 in the nation. Go Red Raiders!
Soccer practice and homework fill our nights. That is, until prime time TV. The new fall season of all our favorites has begun. The Office, Survivor, Lost and of course Sunday night football. Go Cowboys!
Half the seasonal aisles at the markets are filled with all the usual Halloween acroutements, the other half are filling with Christmas. Our costumes for this year’s haunt are already picked out. Pirates all around. Can’t wait to hand out treats to all the little ghosts, goblins and ghouls who knock on my door. Before I know it, I will be picking out our holiday turkey and baking our traditional pumpkin pie.
Wobblies are gone
While I still have this bandage covering more than half my face, the wobblies seem to be gone. This means that the primary limitation to my getting around is limited to having only one eye with uncorrected vision of something on the order of 20/400. There are also some pain issues that preclude quick movements. (If my grandson accosts me with his light saber, I will definitely have to rely on The Force to defend myself.)
Saturday night, we took advantage of this new freedom to walk down to Joe’s Italian Corner for dinner. This place is run by Joe himself and his family. Food is nicely prepared and well presented. Serving people dress the part, and Nancy thought they ought to be in classier surroundings. But then they would have to charge more.
We wanted to try Joe’s on the evening of Ike’s arrival, but the place was closed down. And they didn’t get power back in the first week after the storm. So Saturday night was a treat. The portions were ample, so we came home with an afternoon meal for Sunday.
It’s a glorious morning in Houston. Morning temperatures in the sixties. I’m waiting for a negative reaction to one of my medications (I should own stock in Walgreens?). If the reaction isn’t severe, we will walk over to Memorial Park.
Again, thank you all for your prayers, your thoughts, your expressions of care and love.
Surgical success
The news from Houston is mostly favorable — a successful surgery followed by consuming thirst and a healthy appetite and supper in the evening.

Earlier in the day, Dr. Gombos and team took a little longer than they expected, but they removed the eye without any rupture. That means the tumor was contained within the eye, the best case scenario for my situation. Pending confirmation from the pathology report, that means I should escape the need for radiation therapy.
The bad news is that the curse of Corvallis claimed the Trojans once again. Except for the third quarter, USC did not look like championship material Thursday night.
USC’s loss notwithstanding, I spent a reasonably comfortable night in “P8,” had a nice visit with Dr. Gombos on Friday, and have two appointments for next week. With luck, we should be able to spend most of the second week of recovery in Lubbock.
We reported early to surgery check-in, and shortly after our arrival, little Rachel, the 5-year-old with leukemia whom we met the day before arrived to check in for her bone marrow transplant. This time, Rachel had a sizeable retinue that included her parents, an elegant woman wearing a headshawl and angle-length dress (grandmother?) and two other children about her age. The three children walk-skipped into the waiting area hand-in-hand, smiling broad as a summer day, eyes all sparkles. Rachel had brought her own angels to the party, and there was enough joy to share with all the company.
Prep for the operation went smoothly. They found a vein on the backof my left hand on first try, and got the i.v. going. (Nancy discreetly turned the other way.) The last thing I remember is that she was heading out to do a few errands, and I had at least two attendants and an anesthesiologist.
Recovery is a fascinating place, if you just listen to all the things going on. There was an older woman in the partition next to me whose name was Hilda. As her daughter coaxed Hilda toward awareness, she threatened to “go get daddy,” and that seemed to do the trick. Hilda began answering all kinds of questions. Then there was this other fellow who had just had a brain tumor removed. He was a rather testy individual who used strong language in responding to those trying to bring him around. Nancy later observed “how far we’ve come” that someone fresh out of brain surgery could be “so responsive.”
Someone once said, “You can’t direct the wind, but you can adjust your sails.” It’s a great day for sailing and adjusting our course.
Operation scheduled
Ten a.m. Thursday, Sept. 25. Third Floor F Elevator. No food after midnight. That’s the bottom line for the two of us.
So, you spend an entire day meeting with doctors, nurses, physician’s assistants, clinicians, medical students … watching other patients, listening to their stories. Two five-year old girls, cute as buttons. Strangers playing with each other. One of Russian-Libyan extraction. The other all Texan. One with leukemia, the other with a mysterious malignancy in her foot. Parents bravely discussing ways to tell children about diseases the parents fear and the children accept.
Old men, their wives and children fighting to keep some measure of normalcy in their lives. A large, older woman walking with a cane, clearly in pain, but smiling as broad as the south plains and spreading sunshine everywhere around her, a perfect picture of courage and love of mankind. Persons bald from radiation, some wearing masks to protect themselves from germs.
It is a fascinating cross section of humanity.
Ninth floor, sixth floor, second floor. Ophthalmology, anesthesiology, lab work. Physicians and staff? Certainly the lead players are at the top of their games. Best in the field. Intense men and women. Scholars and practitioners at the same time. Supporting cast efficient, focused and patient-directed.
Out at the airport, “are you involved with MD Anderson?” the man checking in our rental car asked. He was reading the label on my baseball cap. Then he proceeded to extol the center, and in the course of our conversation he revealed his wife worked there.
So, we move toward our operation, confident that we are in good medical hands, blessed by the prayers and caring attention of hosts of friends, angels, family and others.
And last and first the love of God.
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